Couples Counseling
Expert couples counseling, in San Francisco.
I specialize in working with couples. My approach is fair, kind, and collaborative — and focused on helping you and your partner understand and change the patterns at the root of recurring conflict.
NOE VALLEY · SAN FRANCISCO · IN-PERSON & TELEHEALTH
Most couples that come to me have found themselves locked in patterns of relating that lead, again and again, to the same conflicts — and the same suffering.
Couples therapy with me involves identifying and understanding those patterns, often with insight into how they developed in the first place. We may explore how each partner's history and formative relationships contribute to current dynamics. The goal isn't just to resolve today's conflict — it's to give you and your partner the tools and understanding to navigate future challenges together.
Sessions are held in my Noe Valley office or via secure video. I work with couples at all stages — newly together, long-partnered, navigating major transitions, or considering separation.
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Understanding patterns
I help couples identify the recurring dynamics that lead to conflict — and understand where those patterns come from.02
Both partners equally
My approach is neutral and fair. I work collaboratively with both partners - not as an advocate for either one. We look more at interactions than fault.03
Lasting change
The goal is durable improvement — better communication, deeper trust, and the capacity to resolve conflict constructively.MY APPROACH
Fair, kind, and collaborative.
• Communication breakdown
• Intimacy and connection
• Intimacy and connection
• Recurring conflict
• Parenting disagreements
• Premarital counseling
• Trust and infidelity
• Major life transitions
• Financial stress
• Emotional distance
• Separation or divorce
• Cultural or values differences
WHAT WE WORK ON
Common reasons couples seek therapy.
Does my partner need to come to the first session?
In most cases, yes — couples counseling works best when both partners are present from the start. I'm happy to discuss what makes sense for your situation in an initial inquiry.What if we're not sure we want to stay together?
Couples counseling doesn't require a commitment to the relationship — only a willingness to explore it honestly. Many couples come to me at a crossroads, and the work can be valuable regardless of the outcome.How long does couples therapy typically last?
It depends on the nature and history of the issues involved. Some couples find meaningful improvement in a few months; others benefit from longer-term work.What are your fees for couples counseling?
Couples counseling is $350 per 50-minute session. I am an out-of-network provider — many PPO plans offer partial reimbursement, and I can provide the necessary superbill to support your claim.FREQUENTLY ASKED
Questions about couples counseling.
Ready to get started?
Fill out a brief inquiry form — including your partner's contact information — and I'll be in touch to discuss next steps.
All inquiries are confidential · Typically responded to within one business day